The document is a bit different from the real template. If you use Reflect to view the actual ControlTemplate for DatePicker, you'll see this:
<Style TargetType="local:DatePicker">
<!-- DatePicker properties -->
<Setter Property="Template">
<Setter.Value>
<ControlTemplate TargetType="local:DatePicker">
<Grid x:Name="Root">
<Grid.Resources>
<!-- Main DatePicker Brushes -->
<SolidColorBrush x:Key="DisabledBrush" Color="#A5FFFFFF" />
<!-- Start: Down button template -->
<ControlTemplate x:Key="DropDownButtonTemplate" TargetType="Button">
<Grid>
<Grid.Resources>
<!-- Visual constants used by the template -->
<Color x:Key="BaseColor">#FF003255</Color>
<Color x:Key="LinearBevelLightStartColor">#FCFFFFFF</Color>
<Color x:Key="LinearBevelLightEndColor">#F4FFFFFF</Color>
<Color x:Key="LinearBevelDarkStartColor">#E0FFFFFF</Color>
<Color x:Key="LinearBevelDarkEndColor">#B2FFFFFF</Color>
<Color x:Key="MouseOverLinearBevelDarkEndColor">#7FFFFFFF</Color>
<Color x:Key="HoverLinearBevelLightStartColor">#FCFFFFFF</Color>
<Color x:Key="HoverLinearBevelLightEndColor">#EAFFFFFF</Color>
<Color x:Key="HoverLinearBevelDarkStartColor">#D8FFFFFF</Color>
<Color x:Key="HoverLinearBevelDarkEndColor">#4CFFFFFF</Color>
<Color x:Key="CurvedBevelFillStartColor">#B3FFFFFF</Color>
<Color x:Key="CurvedBevelFillEndColor">#3CFFFFFF</Color>
<SolidColorBrush x:Key="BorderBrush" Color="#FF000000" />
<SolidColorBrush x:Key="IconColor" Color="#FF000000" />
<SolidColorBrush x:Key="AccentBrush" Color="#FFFFFFFF" />
<SolidColorBrush x:Key="DisabledBrush" Color="#A5FFFFFF" />
</Grid.Resources>
<vsm:VisualStateManager.VisualStateGroups>
<vsm:VisualStateGroup x:Name="CommonStates">
<vsm:VisualStateGroup.Transitions>
<vsm:VisualTransition Duration="0" />
<vsm:VisualTransition To="MouseOver" Duration="0:0:0.2" />
<vsm:VisualTransition To="Pressed" Duration="0:0:0.1" />
</vsm:VisualStateGroup.Transitions>
<vsm:VisualState x:Name="Normal" />
<vsm:VisualState x:Name="MouseOver">
<Storyboard>
<ColorAnimation Storyboard.TargetName="LinearBevelDarkEnd" Storyboard.TargetProperty="Color" To="{StaticResource MouseOverLinearBevelDarkEndColor}" Duration="0" />
</Storyboard>
</vsm:VisualState>
<vsm:VisualState x:Name="Pressed">
<Storyboard>
<DoubleAnimation Storyboard.TargetName="LinearBevelLightEnd" Storyboard.TargetProperty="Offset" To=".2" Duration="0" />
<ColorAnimation Storyboard.TargetName="LinearBevelLightStart" Storyboard.TargetProperty="Color" To="{StaticResource HoverLinearBevelLightEndColor}" Duration="0" />
<ColorAnimation Storyboard.TargetName="LinearBevelLightEnd" Storyboard.TargetProperty="Color" To="{StaticResource HoverLinearBevelLightEndColor}" Duration="0" />
<ColorAnimation Storyboard.TargetName="LinearBevelDarkStart" Storyboard.TargetProperty="Color" To="{StaticResource HoverLinearBevelDarkStartColor}" Duration="0" />
<ColorAnimation Storyboard.TargetName="LinearBevelDarkEnd" Storyboard.TargetProperty="Color" To="{StaticResource HoverLinearBevelDarkEndColor}" Duration="0" />
<DoubleAnimation Storyboard.TargetName="DownStroke" Storyboard.TargetProperty="Opacity" To="1" Duration="0" />
</Storyboard>
</vsm:VisualState>
<vsm:VisualState x:Name="Disabled">
<Storyboard>
<DoubleAnimation Storyboard.TargetName="DisabledVisual" Storyboard.TargetProperty="Opacity" To="1" Duration="0" />
</Storyboard>
</vsm:VisualState>
</vsm:VisualStateGroup>
</vsm:VisualStateManager.VisualStateGroups>
<Rectangle RadiusX="1" RadiusY="1" Margin="1,2,1.5,2" StrokeThickness="1">
<Rectangle.Fill>
<LinearGradientBrush StartPoint="0.7,0" EndPoint="0.7,1">
<GradientStop x:Name="LinearBevelLightStart" Color="{StaticResource LinearBevelLightStartColor}" Offset="0" />
<GradientStop x:Name="LinearBevelLightEnd" Color="{StaticResource LinearBevelLightEndColor}" Offset="0.35" />
<GradientStop x:Name="LinearBevelDarkStart" Color="{StaticResource LinearBevelDarkStartColor}" Offset="0.35" />
<GradientStop x:Name="LinearBevelDarkEnd" Color="{StaticResource LinearBevelDarkEndColor}" Offset="1" />
</LinearGradientBrush>
</Rectangle.Fill>
</Rectangle>
<Grid x:Name="CurvedBevelScale" Margin="2">
<Grid.RowDefinitions>
<RowDefinition Height="7*" />
<RowDefinition Height="3*" />
</Grid.RowDefinitions>
<Path x:Name="CurvedBevel" Stretch="Fill" Margin="1.5,1,1.5,2" Data="F1 M0,0.02 L0,0.15 C0.15,0.22 0.3,0.25 0.5,0.25 0.7,0.25 0.85,0.22 1,0.15 L1,0.02 1,0 0.02,0 0,0.02 z">
<Path.Fill>
<LinearGradientBrush StartPoint="0.5,0" EndPoint="0.5,1">
<GradientStop x:Name="CurvedBevelFillStart" Color="{StaticResource CurvedBevelFillStartColor}" Offset="0" />
<GradientStop x:Name="CurvedBevelFillEnd" Color="{StaticResource CurvedBevelFillEndColor}" Offset="1" />
</LinearGradientBrush>
</Path.Fill>
</Path>
</Grid>
<Grid x:Name="DownStroke" Opacity="0">
<Rectangle Stroke="{TemplateBinding Background}" RadiusX="1" RadiusY="1" StrokeThickness="1" Opacity="0.05" Margin="1.5,2.5,1.5,1.5" />
<Rectangle Stroke="{TemplateBinding Background}" RadiusX="1" RadiusY="1" StrokeThickness="1" Opacity="0.05" Margin="1.5,2.25,1.5,1.5" />
<Rectangle Stroke="{TemplateBinding Background}" RadiusX="1" RadiusY="1" StrokeThickness="1" Opacity="0.05" Margin="1.5,2,1.5,1.5" />
<Rectangle Stroke="{TemplateBinding Background}" RadiusX="1" RadiusY="1" StrokeThickness="1" Opacity="0.05" Margin="1.5,1.75,1.5,1.5" />
<Rectangle Stroke="{TemplateBinding Background}" RadiusX="1" RadiusY="1" StrokeThickness="1" Opacity="1" Margin="1" />
<Rectangle RadiusX="1" RadiusY="1" StrokeThickness="1" Margin="1">
<Rectangle.Stroke>
<LinearGradientBrush EndPoint="0.5,1" StartPoint="0.5,0">
<GradientStop Color="#A5FFFFFF" Offset="0" />
<GradientStop Color="#FFFFFFFF" Offset="1" />
</LinearGradientBrush>
</Rectangle.Stroke>
</Rectangle>
</Grid>
<Grid>
<Path Width="12" Height="11" Stretch="Fill" Stroke="#FF313131" StrokeThickness=".7" Data="M1,2 C1,1.4477153 1.4477153,1 2,1 L56,1 C56.552285,1 57,1.4477153 57,2 L57,42.75 C57,43.302285 56.552285,43.75 56,43.75 L2,43.75 C1.4477153,43.75 1,43.302285 1,42.75 z M1.5,21 L57.25,21 M1.5,33 L57.25,33 M15,9.4479447 L15,42.75 M29.5,9.4479447 L29.5,42.75 M44,9.4479447 L44,42.75"/>
<Rectangle Width="12" Height="2.15" Fill="#FF313131" Stroke="#FF313131" StrokeThickness=".7" VerticalAlignment="Top" Margin="0,5.15,0,0"/>
</Grid>
<Rectangle x:Name="DisabledVisual" RadiusX="2" RadiusY="2" Fill="{StaticResource DisabledBrush}" Opacity="0" />
</Grid>
</ControlTemplate>
<Storyboard Name="Normal State"/>
<Storyboard Name="Disabled State">
<DoubleAnimation Duration="0:0:0.2" Storyboard.TargetName="DisabledVisual" Storyboard.TargetProperty="Opacity" To="1"/>
</Storyboard>
</Grid.Resources>
<Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<ColumnDefinition Width="*"/>
<ColumnDefinition Width="Auto"/>
</Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<Grid.RowDefinitions>
<RowDefinition Height="Auto"/>
</Grid.RowDefinitions>
<!--If DatePickerTextBox template needs to be updated, "System.Windows.Controls.DatePicker.DatePickerTextBox.xaml" file should be updated!-->
<local:DatePickerTextBox x:Name="TextBox" Width="{TemplateBinding Width}" Grid.Column="0" Padding="5,4,6,3"/>
<Button x:Name="Button" Template="{StaticResource DropDownButtonTemplate}" Grid.Column="1" Width="20.5" Margin="-21,0,0,0"/>
<Rectangle x:Name="DisabledVisual" Grid.ColumnSpan="2" Fill="{StaticResource DisabledBrush}" Opacity="1" Visibility="Visible"/>
</Grid>
</ControlTemplate>
</Setter.Value>
</Setter>
</Style>
There's no Rectangle named Disabled. But even there is, it should not cause problem at runtime. Visual States have their own name scope. Currently there're some problem regarding the vsm prefix which will be fixed in a future build.
shanaolanxing - I'll transfer to the Windows Azure team, and will have limited time to participate in the Silverlight forum. Apologize if I don't answer your questions in time.